I asked for support because of how difficult it was to decided to delay getting pregnant. I asked for advice on how to tell my T how much I am struggling.
How is it helpful to be told over and over again that I should not get pregnant with my fiance? All it is doing is making me feel more hopeless.
I mentioned the situation with my fiance because I was trying to express the complexity of the situation. I did not ask for advice concerning my relationship or steps I need to take to ensure a better life for a child. But I tried to gracefully accept everyone's opinion because I do understand how my relationship with my fiance raises concerns.
So I'm trying to say this in a clear, sincere way: the more I am told what a horrible monster my fiance is, how he will never change, asking if I want his DNA in my child, stating all the experiences or research or facts...the more I feel like killing myself. So I respectfully ask for emotional support during this difficult time.
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"Odium became your opium..." ~Epica
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