First of all, thanks for the different points of view. I guess I just want something to hang on to even though I cut things off.
T1 rearranged her office hours around her chemo. Still, I don't know how I could get past her illness and keep working with her.
My next appointment with t2 is not for another week. Not sure it's worth contacting her before then. I hate this over thinking things.
thanks again for your responses. Hugs to all.