Excellent point. Also, I once took a package to my T-- not a gift from my abuser, but something I had ordered from his office that was intended to help me with an issue I had. It was very "hot" for me to deal with. He kept the package for me until I was ready to open it, and then he kept the package after I opened it until I was ready to take it home. He "held" it for me and that was really helpful.