Hi Mefisto, see you've already had some EXCELLENT replies up there!!
So just throwing you in a couple of links for the "experience" bit I hope might help:


And if you don't mind I'll just adjust your terminology there from "defect" to "difference"........and a difference really doesn't have to make someone unattractive you know..........and I haven't even started on the other things that matter just as much as/more than appearance!!!!
Honestly there is going to be so much more about you than that!!! There really is!!!

Alison