I'm sorry this happened to you and has caused you so much pain. I feel it has more to do with the individual rather then how they practice. I have never asked my T what kind of therapy she practices mostly because it doesn't matter to me. I like her and her work. She seems attuned to me and I probably have more strick boundaries than she does. She would never terminate me if I questioned her motives. In fact she has asked me if I have ever questioned something she's said or done. If I think about it next time I see her I will ask her what kind of therapy she does.