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Old Dec 27, 2014, 03:59 PM
Help1999 Help1999 is offline
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Originally Posted by Soul Quake View Post
Does he know you have difficulty communicating? Maybe writing down your feelings would help.
Yes he does. He tries to get me to open up, but it's like I'm frozen
Right now things aren't the best. We had a talk last night and the only thing that bothers him is that I dnt fight for him or our relationship.
I broke up with him and now he feels that I'm going to leave him again. he communicates very well, and he makes me feel safe, and he takes his time and is very understanding about it. But I feel he has so much going on in his life an all he needs me to do is be there for him an for me it's like climbing Mount Everest. The thing is I have been hurt from I was younger, my sister bf tried to molest me, and other ppl did, I never really dealt with that I just blocked it out, so I have this wall of pushing anything good out my life.
I'm a cancer so in very emotional an still the words just dnt come out. My body langue is very defensive sometimes I dnt realize in doing it.

Last edited by FooZe; Dec 27, 2014 at 05:05 PM. Reason: added trigger icon