Could I ask for opinions on something please? My boyfriend apparently got spooked by my bipolar disorder (or any other of the 4 inconsistent explanations) and has decided we go from living together with two roommates to me living by myself and him living with the two roommates. He claims he wants to go to couples therapy while living separately. He said this would only be for 3-6 months and we will be able to get a house together after that. I haven't even decided that I want to stay with him, because to me this is abandonment. Plus he hid the entire process of getting his apartment and then lied about it. My question is, is it even possible for a relationship to move backwards and then attempt to move forwards again? Especially when one partner harbors a lot of negative feelings toward the other? I can't even speak with him without getting privately furious and annoyed. I really appreciate your help everyone!