I have held back really on this thread. personally I can't imagine my life without God in it anymore. I have never doubted that there is a God at all. Although I didn't live like I did for a very long time. But I do have to say if I was in question about it at this time in my life and I came into this forum seeking answers I am afraid I might be scared off. Christianity is not suppose to be so judgemental and hostile. God is all about love and understanding and when we are trying to reach lost souls it is suppose to be more gentle. We should simply state the facts as we know them. We should never "push" our beliefs on anyone. If we don't agree then let it go. God will work on the ones that He wants to come into His fold. I might lose friends over this but I certainly hope not. Let's show the non believers what true christianity is about. much love and peace to everyone.