I have drawn a lot of nourishment in this site from the posts of others and advice that is given out. While I may not be the best poster for fear of being crass and insensitive, I find that many people on this site are very insightful and deep hearted individuals that really care about those around them. It's a beautiful thing, it really is. Then you see those getting flamed for their responses, or given attitude for their advice, even though those individuals took the time to respond. Is this a coping mechanism? Am i blind to the effect this has for the one flaming? Why ask the question if you don't want answers?