I have only seen psychodynamic therapists. The first two were not great matches for me, but neither one of them was ever impatient or cruel, and neither one gave the impression of being annoyed when I questioned them. My current psychodynamic T is the most patient person I have ever met - I have written about that before, quite often I think - and he welcomes questions and challenges to his methods. He is not perfect, but nobody is.

Psychodynamic psychotherapy has its roots in psychoanalysis. If the psychodynamic method did not work so well for you, I would perhaps think of looking into a behavioural kind of therapy rather than psychoanalysis. There is a reason there are different kinds of psychotherapy after all - we are all different. But once again, all reputable studies that have been published on comparison of different kinds of psychotherapy indicate that it is the match between client and therapist that is most important. That doesn't mean the modality is unimportant, but it does mean that different therapists within the same modality can be vastly different in terms of how well they suit a particular client.