I don't know what to do.. my husbsnd and I have been together for almost 7 years married a year and a half. 6 months ago I graduated nursing school and begin my career as a nurse. Since then me and my husband have had so many issues between communication, arguments, bickering, name calling. In September of this year my husband went to a bachelor party at a strip club even though he knows I hate strip clubs, I let him go. My number one rule I've had ever since I met him was no lap dances at strip clubs. My husband promised me he would never get a lap dance and well to my surprise that night he did have a lap dance. He did not tell me about it I asked him and asked him and asked him and he lied over and over again. Until about the 50th time I asked him he finally told me the truth. I was devastated I wanted him to leave I told him I hated him and I didn't know if I could be with him anymore. He cried he begged and pleaded for me to stay and about 5 days later I told him I loved him and I stayed. After that happened we began to fight more, lack communication and problems kept coming and coming and coming. Then in October I made such a dumb decision I began to talk and text someone outside of our marriage. I did not have intercourse with this person I did kiss him once and we hung out about 4 times. This went on for about a month and a half and my husband found out about it 4 days ago when he went through my phone. My husband told me to move my stuff out, he did not love me anymore and that he wanted a divorce. I am so sorry for what I have done I told him I will do anything to fix it I'm going to with therapist tomorrow to see if she can help me. I hope my husband can give me a second chance like I did for him when the strip club thing happened. I know our situations are somewhat different but I was in his shoes and felt betrayed and lied to before. Please help me and tell me what you think I should do . I wish I could turn back time