Hi igiveupinohio
I hear your frustration and that is an awful thing to have to deal with on a day to day basis. How many times have you applied and been turned down for SSDI?
I ask this as I was turned down twice and I finally had to go before an administrative judge to get approved for SSDI. If you have a lobotomy they will approve you the first time it seems. Keep fighting for SSDI approval even if it means getting an attorney who specializes in it. Most only get paid if you win.
Best wishes!