I want to know if my therapist is still with the same girlfriend I know, if they're getting married / having a baby, and I'd like him to tell me what his favorite color is (I have an idea what it might be but I may be wrong).

Also, he's recently told me that at this time he's been changing as a person more than usual - I'd like to know if something happened to trigger that change. Especially since whatever it is seems to be making him a less effective therapist for me.