One of the reasons for me not working is because I am raising my son. I dont have the health to do both. His needs comes first. I dont have the income I had, but manage to get by. There are times when I am in bed when he comes home from school. Sometimes I heat a frozen pizza for dinner. I dont beat myself up about it, only try to do better at good days. He spends two weeks at his fathers house every month, and of course that makes a difference.