Hey bud, I just wanted to add my 2 cents.

- First time I kissed a girl (actually, she kissed me) I was 23. Met the girl on an Amtrak train ... no BS !
- At 24, I got into my first and only serious relationship. We were in love, almost got married. That lasted about a year.
- Since then, I've been in numerous month-long attempts at relationships, meeting girls in a myriad of random ways (the latest was at a furniture store ... she offered up her #)

The point is ... random stuff happens over time ! You're too young to be anxious or worried about not having a girl. As Webgoji said, people your age (esp girls, if you ask me) don't yet know who they are or what they want, and that will change !

I know how you feel ... I've been in exactly that spot. And it ain't fun, but it ain't permanent ... nothing is.

Give it some time ... your true personality and identity will come out. In the meantime, enjoy your youth, and work on yourself (your career for example). You are bound to run into some chick, someday, who will want to take you home and use you for anatomy class.

Your life is just beginning. Countless experiences await you. Come back to this thread when you're my age (31) ... your wife probably won't let you