Relationships are tough no doubt about it. You need to sit back and look at the relationships . How did they start ? did things happen to fast? Did you really get to
know the person?
I agree with Gayleggg. Maybe look into Therapy to find out whats going on in your dating. I learned so much about myself going into Therapy, things I had no clue about.
You will find many people on PC struggling with the same issues, your not alone.
Welcome to PC
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