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Originally Posted by HD7970GHZ
I definitely relate to this!
Just happened a month or so ago when I saw my old friend for the first time in years. I had a high pitched voice - I definitely knew I was doing it and I tried to lower the town of my voice to a more manly level - but I just couldn't stop talking like a younger child. I even had discomfort in my throat / vocal cords by trying to shift... It was horrible!
I also notice this happens with people randomly. It's both with males and females, any age really.
My theory is that I'm struggling to fight back emotions - and my subconscious wants to desperately leap forward and hug the other person tight. I feel this come in waves - it can come and go while in the presence of someone who I feel safe around.
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Oh my gosh yeah I know how you feel it is horrible but for me it's mainly because I feel like they know I'm doing it and know when I stop and I get embarrassed.
It's random for me as well. That theory makes sense I often have the urge to hug people that make me feel safe but I usually fight it and don't end up doing it. I wonder if that is something like disorganized attachment, My therapist suggested that is my attachment style I just read some info she sent me on the subject.