Common Traits of Co-dependency

1. Difficulty identifying feelings accurately
2. Difficulty expressing feelings
3. Difficulty adjusting to change
4. Difficulty making decisions
5. Difficulty letting go
6. Difficulty dealing with conflict
7. Difficulty overcoming shame
8. Difficulty setting boundaries
9. Difficulty being flexible
10. Difficulty with people-pleasing
11. Difficulty postponing gratification
12. Difficulty forming and maintaining close or intimate relationships

From 'Healing The Family Within' by Robert Subby, (c) 1990, p. 43.

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