Taking meds for grief? Is it complicated grief by any chance? I mean, if you've had a recent loss, grief is a very natural and normal reaction to have and doesn't require pills unless it's a more complex / unbearable reaction. Just saying.

Many people ask people in real life that they know and trust - friends, family, GPs, ... Or you could find some therapists that match your criteria and then look up their websites / blogs to see how they describe themselves as professionals and their services, see who you seem to resonate with. Good luck!