(((usehername))),

OMG, that is so tragic, sudden and not anything anyone could be prepared to experience. Ofcourse you are at such a loss to process all that right now, even to believe it happened is something you will need to talk about as you have here. That is something that happens to someone else, something one may hear about that is a rather rare occurance, surely not something anyone would ever imagine ever experiencing themselves. And that is not something your mother would want you to go through either, as I am sure she loved you very much and always wanted the best for you. In light of that, please know that she would want you to get support with your grieving, but to also continue on and use all the postives she gave you to comfort you. No, she is not there physically, however, she is there "in you" and you will always have that. She would not want you to focus on the tragic loss ((usehername)), she would rather you focus more on all the other special things you shared together. If you sat quietly by yourself and thought about how she would comfort you, that is how she would talk about this with you. She would not want you to focus on one day, when she had provided you with so many other days and years that had so much quality in them, in both friendship and love. It is hard to see that right now, I know, but "slowly" take time out's and just think about how she would want you to "heal" and remember all of the good.

(((Caring Hugs)))
OE