I broke up with my boyfriend of 19 months a month ago. I found out about 5 months ago that hr cheated on me and the girl got pregnant, we broke up. Then he begged for me back saying he was so sorry and he loved me and it was a one time mistake etc. I took him back but asked if he was sure he didn't want that girl. He claimed no. Anyway I never felt secure after that. Eventhough he kept reassuring me by spending more time with me and my kids and telling me whenever he saw his child etc. So I tried very hard to believe him. We were making plan for him to meet my family and vice versa. So he came over and I checked his phone which I never do and found out he was lying and was in a relationship with the baby's mom. I ended ours right away. I told the girl what he did to us both. She didn't believe me and he (while on 3-way) completely denied ever being with me. She was with him 9 years and claimed they lived together. He spent so much time with me like sleeping at my house and I was at his too. I just told them good luck I'm done. But I'm still hurting. Hurting that he denied this and that he never apologized. Not necessarily that its over. I'm glad its over he was a liar. But I'm hurt. I haven't contacted him since nor has he contacted me. How do I just move forward?
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