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Old Dec 29, 2014, 08:53 AM
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If you do at all. If you don't, great. That's probably the way it should be. (I think? I'm still a work in progress)

My T has been trying to tackle a lifelong mistrust of men. (My T is male)

My view? Men are pigs. (sorry)

I know that not all men behave that way, but my overall feeling is that their minds are all in the gutter sexually.

I came to think this way because of a few things:
1- I live in the city. Catcalling happens. A lot. I have even been groped on public transport.
2- TV/Media. I think that TV is unfair to men and paint them this way. As perverts, and as morons who only think about how their next move can lead to sex.
3- Private School. I went to an all girls private school. They really really didn't want us to have sex before marriage. So they drilled it into us regularly that all men are pigs, and we should not trust them.

I'm happily married. My husband is respectful and loving and kind, but I still think he has an inner pig. My T doesn't think it's healthy.

It's hard to deny the differences. Men have their hormones that will affect their personality, women have theirs. We are different.

How can I reframe the way that I feel about men? What is your view?
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