Idk, i rather like your "demanding" tone it tells him SOME resistance has been broken down! Like feeling comfortable enough with someone to have a pillow fight. I dont always "clean up" the presentation of my emotions to t - i dont want to lose too much in the translation. I might explain it though. Like i would say, "i feel like saying i love you, but i dont know why." Instead of insisting that i love him, for example.