I did not grow up feeling safe around Males or Females , I learn at a very young age both are driven by sex , drugs and drinking , anger , porn , violence , so to me that was normal .

I was sexually abuse by female's and Males ( not at the same time ) threw out my life .

So for me both sexes are = not one is better then the other they both have there faults .

My husband is my best friend and he drives me nuts and I drive him nuts but he dose take care of me and I owe him my life .

I never thought my best friend would be a male but he is .
Deep down inside I do fear men in general , do to my adopted father that male agression " triggers me " into a frozen little girl scared