This happened to me a couple months ago except bf and I are not married been together for 9 yrs. It happen when an ex of mine from 10 yrs ago (finally came to terms that he is an ex) came into town where we were just gonna have lunch and that was it. I kept seeing him just kissing/making out he confessed his love for me that he is in love with me and been like that for a few years.

He is in the Army, he and my boyfriend have met don't like each other. My bf was really hurt but he also cheated on me by cybering with women online and placing an ad looking for suga momma so we can have money - this was last year. He almost broke up with me, but I really wanted to work this out. The army guy, his old patterns were coming out and he insulted my kissing style. I was told he was back in town for the holidays and he never contacted me good. I did block his number and facebook can't believe he lied to me again.

My boyfriend and I took a break which was hard we were in friend status. We were suppose to come together and talk about what we both wanted from each other, which didn't even happen yet. It doesn't feel like we are on break now, but don't understand why he didn't say anything so we can talk about it. I have reminded him he said we will talk soon and it's almost January! I am not gonna remind him again, sister told me not to remind him that he is a grown man he should remind himself.

We are still together. Your story sounds like mine....