I, like the others, feel sorry for you and your family. Who knows, the sheriff's department wanted to train someone, or maybe every so often they do that to keep training on the site, and exam offices. There could be many reasons, but I assume their job is not to show any emotional feelings what so ever. Therefore I'm confident it puts an uncaring atmosphere all around you, but you must put out of your mind what they did, right or not. I must say it had to be wonderful for you, your family, & your mom to be so very close. I'm sure she would be proud of you in all kinds of way. Please have peace now, buy with cherished memories to last a life time.