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Originally Posted by cka87
I almost did today because I told my T something I've never actually said out loud, something that is destroying my life and she told me "I really think that's lame, thats a weenie thing to believe" WELL OKAY. I have no follow up appointment.
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It would depend on the thing for me, and my relationship with T. I do find it startling when he characterizes something without sugar coating it. So if your belief is in fact lame and weenie-ish, then you might take issue with her delivery. If it's not, and she's off, then tell her that. But I think it would be worthwhile to discuss, and to learn the skill of being direct with others about how what they said makes you feel.