I think if you and you T have a good relationship that of course they are aware. T's are taught in training that they also have to keep "themselves" healthy...

Does your T think of you everyday while on vacation? I hope not, Honestly T's deserve just time to think about anything other than there clients. They have a life to live too.

That doesn't mean they don't care, That means they are "using" Boundaries.... the same boundaries they are often teaching us how to use or reminding us to use.