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Old Dec 29, 2014, 09:36 PM
guilloche guilloche is offline
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Thanks...

CANDC - You're right about the moving, I know... it just seems like an easier way to quit therapy than trying to explain to my T that I just don't think there's any real benefit for me to be in therapy anymore! "I'm moving!" seems so much *easier*!

And, thanks for the advice to talk to him. I can maybe try. It just feels very disorganized in my head, and I guess I'm a little afraid that if I say something about quitting, and he says, "well, maybe you should quit!" - that I'd feel abandoned/devastated!

Ruftin - thanks. Maybe I need a break... but I only just started in June, after a long (~7 years) break from therapy. And, I was only seeing him every other week for the first 3 or 4 months.

I guess I just don't get what I'm supposed to get from therapy, I feel like I'm failing therapy and throwing away a lot of money in the process. I'm back to thinking that I'm "un-therapetizable"

Edit to add: LicketySplit - thanks. Your response snuck in while I was typing. Maybe, but I just took a 7-year "break" from therapy. So I don't know if that's the best thing for me... I just sort of hate therapy in general, I thought this time around was going to be better, but I really don't enjoy it at all or feel like I'm getting anything out of it.