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Old Dec 29, 2014, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by dnurse91 View Post
In September of this year my husband went to a bachelor party at a strip club even though he knows I hate strip clubs, I let him go. My number one rule I've had ever since I met him was no lap dances at strip clubs. My husband promised me he would never get a lap dance and well to my surprise that night he did have a lap dance.
As lap dances are standard practice at strip clubs, it shouldn't be a surprise that he had one. Some strip clubs are no contact so there may not have been any contact. There's usually no emotional intimacy in a lap dance, but making out with one's ex would usually involves some intimacy, so you husband feels betrayed. Not that he should be going to strip clubs.