Hello thereisnospoon: Welcome to PsychCentral. PC is a great place to gain support, learn strategies for handling mental health concerns, & to make internet friends. There are many wonderfully supportive members here on PsychCentral.

I'm sorry you have come to such sad conclusions with regard to women. Unfortunately, since I'm old, & married, I can't be of much help to you in terms of how to attract women nowadays, or how to forget about them either, for that matter. Hopefully some younger men may see your post & reply. I will mention that if you do not receive many other replies, one reason may be the length of your post. My experience has been that longer posts tend to attract fewer replies. So you may want to consider posting one or more new Threads containing your primary concerns. One additional forum you may want to take a look at would be:

Relationships & Communication - Forums at Psych Central

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