It has taken all my psychological knowledge and moral fortitude to tell my T she needs to reinforce her boundaries and stop calling.

Very short back-story. I have recently undergone surgery to attempt to bring about a remission from unrelenting pain and had a med (Lyrica) reaction in her office. Tho before this started she was textbook at maintaining her boundaries, she has recently asked if she could do my grocery shopping and has been calling to check on me. Tho on one hand, my did because it made me feel loved. On the other hand, my brain said , this is not a real 2-way relationship and it's not love (I don't question she cares).

After much discussion, she will reinstate her stricter boundaries. Now, of course, I am kicking my brain for wanting to be independent . I want to make up a million stories to get her to call me again, but naturally won't. I will hold dear that she sought to help me even outside the bubble.