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Old Dec 30, 2014, 02:11 AM
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Originally Posted by Bipolarartist View Post
ARGGH! Why do I do these things? I've let my ex make me feel bad, again. To touch, I feel bad after the small hugs we were doing as obviously he is confusing matey type hugs as loving hugs. I don't know how to stop this. My T would say "Seems like P has his own issues"


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I was trying to talk to him about our marriage and he couldn't see the abuse. Because he never hit me or abused me physically he doesn't see the abuse

Hugs, I'm going through something similar and it sucks. Reminds me strongly why we are no longer a couple!

I guess counseling is not an option for your H? It might make him see his own errors.

(((BPA)))