Harold and Maude is one of my favorite movies. It's very dark kind of funny but also I think it is beautiful. Here we have a young man and his friendship/possible love with an almost 80 year old woman.

I feel that love is good. It doesn't have to be romantic, but if you find any kind of soul mate that is a deepening experience and you don't want to miss it. Age should not matter.

I don't need to add I'm excluding sexual acts with minors.

But I know people who have crushed on long dead people. You are lucky to find your soulmate in this lifetime, because so many lifetimes have came and went. If there are years between you, that doesn't really matter.

But things run deep. I have a new friendship (totally non-romantic) with a girl half my age. She thinks I am old. But also she likes me a lot. She can't decide if she can be friends with an "old" person or if I'm more of an aunt/uncle to her. I wish we could just be FRIENDS, you know....