Yip, I can see why he feels betrayed enough to call it quits.


There's a huge difference between a lap dance from a professional stranger (not condoning his behaviour) and an intimate kiss with someone you intentionally took the time to form a connection with...


I find it strange that both of you have such extreme (divorce) reactions to each others actions, yet both of you stepped over that "marriage" line. I would've expected at least one of you tow the line...


Marriage counseling is only a viable option if both parties are interested in salvaging the marriage.


Good luck and take care.