I ramble all the time - it feels like rambling to me, but I have a hunch perhaps what I perceive as "rambling" my t sees as thinking out loud, and she goes with it, is very good at listening and picking up on things that I sometimes don't even remember thinking were important. I too have had lightbulb moments more than once during my rambling. Maybe that's one reason why I feel like therapy is such a gift to myself - having someone actually LISTEN to me the way she does, it's priceless. I haven't had anyone listen to me that way since I was 15 and that was a LONG time ago!
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