Blech. Breakups suck. A good friend was talking about the awesome gift she gave her spouse for Christmas, and I was reminded of how much I loved coming up with unique present ideas for my STBX. She wasn't doing it to show off, and I was interested in how her spouse liked it, but it still hurts to be reminded that I didn't do anything like that this year. ETA: I was able to focus on getting great gifts for the kids in my family, which I guess is a good distraction.