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Originally Posted by RDMercer
I agree... Remaining in bed will not help the situation.
She says my tone is too strong and it sounds condescending. Maybe she is right. We have now resolved that I will leave small notes in a diary type notebook expressing my concerns.
She holds my former p*rn viewing over my head, both as the primary reason for her anxiety and depression, and as a threat to expose to others what I have done and why she is so distraught.
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Wow! So you are reduced to leaving her a note, that's not an equal partnership! A marriage cannot survive on fear like that. Step outside of the situation and think objectively what you would think is the path for this situation. Your wife needs help and you are losing yourself in the process by living like this. Please go and get counselling for yourself.
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