I do not see myself giving up on women myself. Sure they can be hard to work out sometimes but thats part of who woman are. I cant offer any useful words for the OP. The only thing been people would be very surprised by what can happen tomorrow.
Just this year for maybe the first time ever I cough 2 different women on different days miles apart checking me out when i walked down the street. That at my age 38 I never experienced before. The were coy about it but i noticed. That gave my ego a timely boost.