Does anyone with BPD have obsessive relationships. Like you think about fantasies with this person because you love him or her. I'm a girl and I love my female teacher. She is like a mother to me but I obsess about her all the time. I've caught myself being cautiously stalkerish. Like I'm always looking for her at school. I ask others where she is. I even know what car she drives and her license plate number. Is this normal for a BPD patient. I'm really a clingy person but I get angry quickly if they reject me. I feel humiliated if they reject me. I litterly can attach to nurturing woman if they show the slightest kindness to me regarding my conditions. I also could have jus met them and I cling to them. I feel really guilty regarding my longings but they are insatiable.