i don't know what I would do, I really don't!

I just feel like you have something of value to them, but the way things are at present (acutely) maybe it would be better (if that is possible) to wait until the trauma has died down a little ...

I think it would be very strong of you to give it to them at some point when you feel they may be less overwhelmed by the rush of other people around them.

ONLY my opinion, others may have different views.