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Originally Posted by Nature1968
What I'm concerned with is that I am afraid she is using me to fill a physical void that she doesn't get because of the long distance relationship. Not that she's doing it intentionally, but that it's happening and she doesn't even realize it.
That I am not ok with.
That is what I meant by you getting hurt !
I am glad you see this and you can stop this before it gets to deep .
You know she would not be doing half the stuff she is doing with you if her b/f was there .
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I am extremely self-aware and am constantly trying to figure this out. That was the first thing I thought maybe this was. She's not interested in me like that, but the physical void is being filled. Either that or she's just not ready to confront her actions or feelings. When she dated other females in high school her family was extremely hurtful and unsupportive, so I could see why she would do anything to recoil her feelings.
But yes, I am super aware of what's going on and I am treading very lightly, just in case.
Thank you for your support!