Thanks Depress. I have never said anything about it in therapy, I guess, because I always felt like it was my fault. He was supposed to be smarter than me, stronger than me, more stable than me, etc. It started out with lots of compliments, followed by requests for hugs, etc. And then one day, there was no receptionist or secretary in the office and he took me back and he told me that it was just him and me. What could I do?

I remember being 120 pounds dripping wet and I think still to this day that I must carry an extra 50 lbs around just for protection. I won't lost the weight because I don't want to. I refuse to date. I won't go to any professional who is male -- I don't care what they do, but especially doctors. I just plain don't trust men. Wish I could get over that, but just don't see how it will ever happen.

How do women ever get over stuff like this? (Sorry, now I'm off topic.)

Thanks for your reply!
Take care,
Okie