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I feel uncomfortable 'teaching' my t the 'skills' I think she ought to have! Letsay

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Withit,

In any relationship, including the one with our T, we have to let the other person know (teach them) what our needs are. My T did the same as Sunny's in that he consistently encourages me to let him know what I need from him. I have begun to do that and our relationship is growing closer and deeper as a result. I even remember telling him he needed to get in touch with his feminine! It's okay to say what you want or require in this relationship. Go for it!

As far as the cell phone and the husband, well, you need that to not happen.......I venture a guess that he was chastised for his knocking.....would have if her were my husband anyway.

In a way, T was right, you were feeling you were not a priority.

My T offers dream interpretations and sometimes he's dead on and sometimes he isn't. When he isn't, I let him know and he says, "Well there goes that one." T's are human too.

Good luck in forging this relationship.