i agree with the width sentiment.

it isn't crucial, of course. i wouldn't go out with someone just because of that and i wouldn't not go out with someone just because of that either. i mean, if i can find my g-spot with my finger it is fairly clear that size ain't the be all and end all lol.

that being said... it does feel different with different guys. i'm sure it feels different for guys with different girls too. i think that guys probably could have the same conversation about vaginas lol. a good fit is probably what you want... in all honesty... i think thats partially why i'm attracted to guys with a body type such that they are a male version of me...

i went out with this sri lankan guy once. he was smaller than me in body type. the sex wasn't exactly unsatisfying... but it was a whole heap different than it was with guys who were bigger than me in body type. (penis size is fairly related to body type which is why hands are a fairly good indicator lol). he was very creative and it was very pleasant... but we did need to be a bit more creative than i needed to be with other partners.

so... not the be all and end all sure... but for preference... wide is good, sure lol.