<font color="#880000"> You're a saint for having such patience with him.

I'd suggest making it known that if he wants you to respect his boundries, then he must also respect yours. This would probably include him not loosing his temper and also learning how to control his emotions if you upset him. But, this means that you must adhere to the 1 month rule. If you believe you can stick to it, then it should be no prob.

During that 1 month, you must find a way to fill the gap while he's busy. Take up a few hobbies around the city where you'll be working with other people or something. Making friends or keeping in touch with family will be an important substitute for him during that month...And they're good to have all year anyway. :]

He might have difficulties communicating his needs simply because he's never needed to tell people about these boundries too often, and also because there are so many specifics to remember. You might need to give him time to remember these things. But, you also have a right to be treated respectfully as you are learning and he's remembering.
Either way, you should both respect the fact that you guys are getting used to something that's simply hard to get used to. Therefore, you should both be as supportive and respectful of eachother during this learning process. It will be work, and you will both have to give a little...Or a lot. Best of luck. </font>