lol, that's funny. it does really help when i read about other people's problems that are the same or similar. it is so darn hard when you love someone. heartbreak just isn't an option. we try to do anything to avoid that. if only our partners felt the same. they would work as hard at our relationships as you or i. ARGH! men! if mine wasn't so darn adorable and irresistible and a soulmate then....