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Originally Posted by unguy
For the last several months I've tried living an asexual lifestyle. (That is how I was raised, to be asexual and a parental caretaker.) But, I am more miserable than ever. Being celibate is awful. It is NOT an option. How awful that someone would even suggest it.
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It wasn't awful of me to suggest that - I gave the suggestion based on the fact that you say you are gay and find the idea of gay sex unappealing. If you find sex unappealing then why have sex? It was a logical suggestion.
I agree with others who are suggesting that it likely isn't your sexual orientation that is causing your problems: you have self-esteem issues and a negative perception of others. I understand the hopelessness that is depression, but there are likely other reasons why the people you meet have not liked you as opposed to anything to do with your homosexuality.
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"I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am.
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