Hello SoSelfish, welcome to Psych Central.
I know you are probably full of conflicting thoughts right now but if your husband was abusing you then you have done the right thing in getting out. Do not listen to the threats with regards to your job, just let them know at work that you are now separated. Do not even think of going back, be safe.
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