My friends are really outgoing people, and they are the kind of friends that want you to listen to their problems but don't want to hear about mine.
Sometimes if they have ignored me or not invited me somewhere it makes me seriously anxious about talking to them again for a while, they also say that about my problems aren't an excuse to not talk to them but sometimes I just can't listen to them drone about their issues that aren't really issues when I can't get my own head in order.
I understand where you are coming from, I really like sometimes you do need to just keep time for yourself or you might end up feeling worse.
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